Gucci Mane Tells His Baby Momma That His Broke And Can’t Afford To Increase Child Support

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February 9, 2020

Hey Guy’s , I hope you’re all well .Gucci Mane is well known for not only his rapping or jail time but also for his fancy clothes and cars .

However, his lavish lifestyle might have got him in some trouble with his baby mama who is demanding money from the father of her son . However, in his defense he is claiming that he and Keisha Kay are broke .

Sheena Evans, mother of Gucci Mane’s 11 year old Son Keith has decided to drag him to court Sheena is apparently requesting that the rapper pay her twenty thousand per month instead of two thousand and seventy six per month in child support.

Sheena Evans is apparently seekin a huge increase in child support payments based on Gucci, Mane’s lavish and sometimes over-the-top lifestyle, Keisha Couture and her husband, often flaunt their luxury cars, designer articles of clothing and flashy pieces of jewelry on there Instagram page and on social media in general.

The power couple also had a million-dollar wedding that aired on BET. Gucci said he is broke and the wedding did not cost a lot of money and asked for the case to be dismissed.

The rapper said his income is the same since 2011 . A lot of comments from his fans seemed to be taking the rappers side . One fan said she doesn’t need any damn 17,000 a month. Bitch, please, honestly. If I were Gucci I’d say, two thousand is more than enough

Another commenter said “Chicks are looking for rappers to trap it’s like a new money making scheme or hobby job”.Another commenter stated “this needy bitch sees them Living well , and now she wants seventy thousand a month. Chill.

A third comment, read all of you are saying his baby mama a gold digger, but put yourself in the kids position. You see your dad and his wife iced out dressed in the best designjer brands driving the latest cars and all his offering his son is $2000.

This commento didn’t agree saying “they work for their gifts in life” His baby mama should hustle harder. Maybe she should become a millionaire and give him a certain lifestyle.

What do you think leave your comments below and hit the share buttons .

How to Handle Failures in Life

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February 9, 2020

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If you knew you couldn’t fail what new goals would you set yourself?

Today I want to talk to you about how to handle mistakes and failures in your life. One of my favorite questions is that if you’re absolutely guaranteed of success in any task or goal large or small, what great goal would you set for yourself?

Everyone tends to make mistakes in their lives. The only question is: do you stay positive and keep moving forward from life’s inevitable ups and downs?

Here’s how you can learn to maintain a positive mindset and benefit from your failures in the face of adversity? First, for you to truly understand yourself and to move forward from the troubling things that may have happened in your past, you have to be able to shred and remove any doubts that you have from the past.

You must rid yourself of those thoughts and feelings it could be by revealing them to someone you trust who won’t make you feel guilty or ashamed for what has happened.

There are two ways to look at the world: the negative or positive way. People with a negative worldview tend to play the role of the victim. They tend to see life as a continuous succession of problems and a procession of unfairness and oppression.

They can’t move forward they shrug their shoulders and passively accept that this is just the way life is, and there isn’t anything that they can do to make it better.

On the other hand, people who practice positive thinking see the world around them as filled with opportunities and possibilities. They believe that everything that happens both good and bad is just part of a great process designed to make them successful and happy in the end.

They approach their lives, their work and their relationships with optimism, cheerfulness and a general vibe of positive thinking and expectations. They stay positive, expect a lot and are seldom disappointed.

When you develop this skill, you become the kind of person who welcomes obstacles and setbacks as opportunities to flex your mental muscles and move forward. You look at problems as rungs on the ladder of success that you grab onto as you pull yourself higher and higher.

A common but misguided way to handle a setback or mistake in life is simply to accept that’s life and you’re just unlucky or just continue to make the same choice/decision over and over again……”FUN FACT “ 70% of all decisions we make will be wrong.

The above is just an average. The fact is that our society, our families, our companies and our relationships continue to survive and thrive simply because intelligent people tend to cut their losses, stay positive and minimize their mistakes.

It’s only when people refuse to accept that they have made a bad choice or decision and prolong the consequences by sticking to that bad choice or decision that mistakes become extremely expensive and hurtful.

Learn from your mistakes. The second common approach that people take in regards to their mistakes and one that hurts and impacts a lot of peoples lives and careers is the failure to use your mistakes to better yourself and to improve the quality of your mind and your thinking and that’s why learning from your mistakes is an essential skill that enables you to move forward.

Stay positive and develop the resilience to be a master of change, rather than a victim of change. The person who recognizes that he or she has made a mistake and changes the direction the fastest is the one who will win in an age of increasing information, technology and competition.

By remaining fast on your feet, you will be able to outplay your competition, you will become a creator of circumstances rather than a creature of circumstances. Now I’d love to hear from you. So my question today is this: tell me about a mistake you made, and what did you learn from it leave a comment below and hit that share button if you know someone who would benefit from this information.

2 Myths to Happiness

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February 9, 2020

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Today I want to talk about happiness and the three myths to happiness, in my humble opinion true happiness and fulfilment come when you feel that you’re making a valuable contribution to your world.

The natural emotional state is peace and happiness whenever you experience a deviation from the peace of mind and happiness, it’s an indication that there is something wrong.

That could be due to what you’re thinking of doing or saying, you’re an incredibly complex organism and your feelings of happiness and unhappiness can be triggered by a myriad of factors.

But the bottom line is that your feeling of inner happiness is the very best indicator. You could ever have to tell you what you should be doing more of and what you should be doing less of unhappiness is to your life the same as pain is to your body.

There are many reasons why people don’t listen more closely to their feelings and especially why many people are reluctant to use their own happiness as the standard by which to judge the events in their lives.

There are three major myths about happiness that each of us has to some degree. Let’s talk about them.

The first myth about happiness is that it’s not legitimate or correct for you to put your happiness ahead of everyone else throughout life. You’ll meet people who are very adamant about stating that happiness is something that you may or may not get from life. But it’s not a goal or objective by itself.

These people say that it’s more important to make other people happy than to make yourself happy. Of course, this is nonsense. Human beings are happiness, organisms, everything we do in life is oriented towards maintaining and increasing our level of happiness.

We are psychologically constructed so that it’s impossible for us to be any other way without making ourselves mentally and emotionally ill. The fact is that you cannot give away to anyone else what you don’t have for yourself, just as you cannot give money to the poor, if you don’t have any, you can’t make someone else happy if you are yourself miserable the very best way to assure the happiness of others is to be happy yourself and then to share it with them.

The second myth, closely tied to the first myth that happiness is not a legitimate aim, is the claim that we’re here to serve others rather than ourselves. There are many poems and essays that repeat this main theme.

They say that we’ve justified our life on this earth if we’ve made some other person happy on the way through. This is partially true and partially false. It’s partially true in the fact that most important things in life we do is to serve other people in some way, it’s through service to others that we achieve a sense of meaning and purpose in life.

However, when we lose ourselves in doing something that we feel benefits, someone more than ourselves, that we experience transcendence. To paraphrase Robert Louis Stevenson, everybody makes their living by serving someone.

However, the key is to serve with joy and happiness. The answer to this myth is that, yes, we’re here to serve others, but we’re also here to achieve our own joy, satisfaction, and fulfillment.

As a result, one of the requirements of high self-esteem and confidence is the feeling that we’re making a contribution to the world that we’re living in that we’re putting in more than we’re taking out.

So we serve others in order to be happier than we would be most people allow their parents to influence their Choices of career and find themselves miserable as a result, they want to please their parents. They want to make them happy, but they’re unable to experience any joy in what they’re doing.

So our question today is: have you gone through life, believing one of these myths about happiness, leave a comment below

2 Common Mistakes Most Parents Make When Talking With Preschool Children

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February 9, 2020

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These are some common mistakes, I’ve witnessed people make when they’re talking to preschool-age children

Hi, this is a very short post of two of the most common mistakes, people make when they’re talking to preschool-age children. There really is a certain way to talk to preschoolers to get them to do what you want them to do, and there are some really obvious mistakes that people make that if you correct them, you might be able to get better results.

So here is my list of the five common mistakes. I see people make number five is over flattery, just going over at the top with a child telling them how amazing and great they are, how outstanding their artwork is. How much you love? Love, love, love it and after a while, what happens is that

EVERYTHING YOU SAY STARTS TO SOUND, VERY INSINCERE

The first time you say something over-the-top like that’s the best picture. I’ve ever seen anybody draw they may enjoy it, but if you go overboard and say it every time. Can you guess what happens?

After a while, they will start to think that you’re not being really sincere because they hear you saying it to everybody and then they start feeling, like everything you say, is not very sincere or genuine.

So you want to be sure when you’re talking to a child when you like something say it from your heart not going over at the top with too much flattery and compliments

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number four is saying terms that mean nothing to children to be a little bit blunt you’re just wasting your breath, things like you should know better or how many times have I told you, or I have told you time and time and time again you know how to do this.

Well, the reality is: maybe they don’t because they’re not doing it, and sometimes you really have to teach children how to behave. Much like you would teach them the alphabet.

The numbers color shapes. You really have to spell it out for them quite frankly, you may have to tell them time and time and time again children learn through repetition, and you might have to find several different ways to tell them the same thing repeatedly so that they are constantly hearing it

Thanks for reading and as promised this was just a quick post as it was something that had recently been on my mind.

Da Brat Announces Her Engagement To Da Real BB Judy

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February 9, 2020

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Hi, guy’s, I hope you’re all well ….. As you’re probably aware Shantay Harris AKA “da Brat” has been dating Jessica Cooper, better known as Judy Judy have been dating but there’s even more news.

The two ladies aren’t just dating they’re engaged Judy broke the news of her engagement on her Instagram yesterday. So now for anyone who doesn’t know Jessica DuPont, better known Durrell Bebe Judy is a founder and CEO, of Keller hair products.

The single mom of a three is a self-made entrepreneur who has expanded, her business into real estate management, mentorship public speaking and philosophy.

She has established herself as a millionaire hair entrepreneur from a young struggling single mother.

Jessica’S kayla hair products generate more than 12 million sales per year. The company has been endorsed by some notable celebrity faces.

Anyway, congratulations Ladys. Hit the share button and leave your comments in the comments section below.

Is mindfulness better than medication?

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February 9, 2020

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Is mindfulness better than medication?

Does it work better than medication for depression? It might not work as quickly, but the research shows that it can be mare effective in the long term without the side effects of medication.

Simply put mindfulness is paying attention to the here and now!

It’s being fully present at the moment. And you’re experiencing the present moment in a non-judgmental way. Experiencing any given moment is different from thinking about it. We spend more time thinking and processing thoughts than we do experience.

And your mind is always working and processing a lot of thoughts each and every minute of the day. And thoughts can be your friend if they’re, creative and help you make plans or figure out a problem., But thoughts can be your enemy when they make you over worry.

Also, thoughts can be your enemy when they tell you negative things about yourself. So managing your thoughts is one of the goals of mindfulness. Why does this matter In an article from Science magazine in 2010? Researchers talked about how the normal default mode of your brain is to wander and think about things from the past and present.

It’S called stimulus, independent thought, and although this is the default mode of your brain, it comes at an emotional cost. That is, they found that people were more unhappy when their thoughts wandered than when they were intentionally focused on the thing that was currently happening.

So an overactive mind creates a sense of distress and likewise, a mind with more controlled thoughts on the present is less troubled. How is this related to brain function? Researchers have shown that depression can be characterized as less connectivity between the neurons in certain parts of the brain that regulate and process your emotions.

So, for example, suppose you lose your job and you can’t find another one.. You could be sitting around thinking about your situation and start focusing on all the negative things that have happened to you and come to the conclusion that my life sucks and what’s the point trying anyway.

Another situation could be that you’re thinking about your situation and you think I hate this I’ve got to find something else to do. Maybe I need to switch careers or what else can I do?

How can I make that happen? Do I need to get more training? The first thoughts were more negative and hopeless. The second set of thoughts are much more hopeful and problem-solving focused. So with depression, you selectively focus on negative things and wallow in negative self-appraisal.

You can just get lost in the negative thinking, and we see this with the hopelessness of depression. You get tunnel vision that blocks out the positive thoughts and you get locked into this negative world in your head. The end result is poor ability to regulate your mood and too much time focusing on the negative ones.

Here’s where mindfulness can come to the rescue. Because mindfulness helps reduce self-critical thoughts. This, of course, is a simplified explanation. If you really want to get into the details of how this happens please use the link at the bottom of this post.

However, here’s an even bigger point and how it can really help treat depression in the long run. Researchers have shown that not only does the practice of mindfulness help during the period that you’re doing it. But if you practice it on a regular basis, you get sustained connectivity and therefore an improvement in your depression.

What’s a regular basis In the studies that I will reference at the bottom of this article the participants completed an eight-week program of doing mindfulness exercises on average 30 minutes to an hour a day.

Now I realize even 30 minutes a day is a lot and you don’t have to start with that. However, keep in mind. Practising mindfulness doesn’t always have to involve sitting in a room with your eyes closed in quiet meditation. You can be in a mindful state in your day-to-day activities.

The mindfulness attention awareness scale is a questionnaire that researchers use to get a sense of a person’s baseline level of mindfulness in their everyday activities and some of the items used to measure are as follows. I forget a person’s name almost as soon as I’ve been told it for the first time. And I tend to walk quickly to get where I’m going without paying attention to what I’m experiencing along the way. Can you relate to any of these things? These are just a couple of examples of how you can mindlessly engage in everyday activities.

And the real practice of mindfulness will involve not only having quiet time but learning how to be more present and aware throughout your day. So back to the issue of whether or not it’s better than medication. For some people, it may be a better option especially given the potential side effects of medication.

However, it doesn’t have to be either one or the other choice. You can practice mindfulness. alongside your medication treatment, your mindfulness practice is something you can use to help you out of a depression.

You can see a therapist who specializes in mindfulness-based cognitive therapy., But to do this on your own. The easiest way to start is to do guided meditations, where you listen to someone talk you through the process.

Click the social share button below and share this post with someone who you think could use it and please add your thoughts in the comments section below.

References

Proc Natl Acad Sci U S A. 2001;98(7):4259-64. Brown, K. W., West, A. M., Loverich, T. M., & Biegel, G. M. (2011). Assessing adolescent mindfulness: Validation of an Adapted Mindful Attention Awareness Scale in adolescent normative and psychiatric populations. Psychological Assessment, 23(4), 1023-1033

Article about neuroconnectivity as the basis for depression R. H. Kaiser, J. R. Andrews-Hanna, T. D. Wager, and D. A. Pizzagalli, “Large-scale network dysfunction in major depressive disorder: a meta-analysis of resting-state functional connectivity,”

JAMA Psychiatry, vol. 72, no. 6, pp. 603–611, 2015. Mindfulness prevents relapse best in people with 3 or more episodes Ma, S. H., & Teasdale, J. D. (2004). Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy for Depression: Replication and Exploration of Differential Relapse Prevention Effects. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 72(1), 31-40.

Disclaimer: All of the information on this channel is for educational purposes and not intended to be specific/personal medical advice from me to you.

How to Handle Haters

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Tahiry Dhalia

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Today I’m going to share with you, something that I learned from Grant, Cardone in his audiobook the 10x rule, which is probably in my top three most, motivating book recommendations. I’ve listened to that audiobook probably at, least five times in its entirety since I, first heard it a few years ago.

It is, one of those audiobooks that can give you that needed kick in the butt when you’re feeling, unmotivated and you just need someone to, kind of give you that boost of, motivation and also some really great, practical steps and techniques to take, action in your life.

If you’re not, familiar with Grant Cardone, I will link his social media and YouTube, channel at the bottom of this post but, something that he says often that really, stands out to me and something that I, really want to share with you is the difference between haters and naysayers.

Now you might be thinking Melissa your blog is all about positivity why are, you talking about haters well something, that I actually find quite fascinating is why the haters/naysayer in our lives are can be a really toxic influence in your life because, they go under the radar so I’m gonna, explain to you a hater is basically, someone in your life who is jealous of, you or doesn’t want you to succeed or is, just a negative force in your life.

Now, normally the haters can be quite obvious and easy to identify, like you can notice when someone is, jealous of you or when someone has bad, intentions toward you so it’s very easy, to kind of avoid that.

However a naysayer can often be someone that’s very very close, to you so Grant uses the example of his, own mother being a naysayer in his own, life and the reason that this is so, dangerous is because it can really stop, you from pursuing your dreams without, you even realizing it.

so for example, Grant Cardone’s mom used to tell him you’ve got a good job like, you’re doing well, don’t try to go and start that business, don’t get into real estate it’s too, risky, you’re gonna lose all your money

You’re, going to make the wrong decisions, and you’re gonna end up disappointed and, I don’t want that to happen to you so, don’t do that and he says that these naysayers in our life are often, people who want the best for us they love us they truly believe they are trying to keep us safe and helping us avoid being disappointed.

However, in turn, they’re also preventing us from taking risks and are deterring us from going after what we, really want most in life, many of us probably aren’t even aware, of the naysayers in our life.

Now I’m not saying that it means that you need to, convince them to support you and, change their mind it just means you need to be, aware of when someone is being a, naysayer so that you, can go and take the action anyway.

Now, this is all about really trusting yourself, and when people start telling you, to stay small to not go after that level, of fitness that you’ve always wanted, because maybe you won’t make it or, maybe you don’t really have time to, commit to that gym schedule so don’t do that you’re just gonna end up disappointed and we don’t want you to, change we love you the way you are.

Messages like those above are on one hand so well-meaning and they seem like they’re wrapped in love however these kinds of actions and behaviors can also be very dangerous for our self-growth and for our personal development.

I just wanted to write this post as something for you to reflect on in your own life as this might be something that is preventing you, from going after what you really want in your life are there people in your life who are kind of telling you that just stay where you are we love you as you are you don’t start that new business.

But if you have these big dreams in your heart and if you have things that you really want to go after and experience then you’re gonna have to sometimes do it just by following what’s true in your heart

You might not always get the support from those close to you maybe they don’t have it in them to give that to you support sometimes you will just need to muster up your inner strength and just do it as you know it’s the right path for you.

Never forget this is your life and you need to grab all the opportunities that present themselves to you

Thanks for reading guys, and please leave your comments in the comment section below.

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If you knew you couldn’t fail what new goals would you set yourself?

These are some common mistakes, I’ve witnessed people make when they’re talking to preschool-age children

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Is mindfulness better than medication?

Simply put mindfulness is paying attention to the here and now!

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