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Megan Thee Stallion Sues 1501, And Takes Out Restraining order

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So we have to talk about the situation with Megan Thee Stallion and her record label 1501

Her label won’t allow her to release any new music. She explained that she approached them about some of the fine print on her contract that she didn’t notice until she started being managed by rock nation.

Carl Crawford, the co-founder of her label appears to have been blindsided by the news, as Megan Thee Stallion, allegedly did not make him aware of it before making a public announcement on social media.

She claims that, after she approached her label to renegotiate her contract, ex-major league baseball player Carl Crawford, recently stated that he discovered Meg Thee Stallion, on social media and he is responsible for developing her music her career to where it is now.

while Carl did discover Meg on Instagram

her situation was different from other artists like Nicki Minaj, where, for example, she was a relatively unknown talent at the time that she was discovered. Megan already had a bubbling career within the Houston music scene and was already gaining some attraction.

Megan had even caught the eye of QC that is responsible for bringing us acts such as The Amigos, little Yahti, City Girl and Stefan Don, so for him to make it sound like she was some unknown talent is kind of misleading.

Please note she is still signed to 1501 and is only being managed under the rock nation deal.

it seems that under her 1501 deal, she allegedly still owes them at least four more albums. So this is quite a mess.

Meg the stallion actually went into some detail about her record label drama on Instagram Live

Press play below and check out what she had to say.

MEGAN THEE STALLION SPEAKS HER MIND

The first thing I thought after hearing this is that artists really need to start taking way more of an interest in these contracts that they’re signing,

Let’s be real about this, record labels will rarely have your best interests at heart it’s always going to be about making as much money as possible and your best interests will come second to the money they can make from the artists.

However, I can understand how many artists fall into this trap as well, because many of them have been struggling for years, just hoping for someone to give them an opportunity in the industry.

Now, when a record label finally, shows interest in their talent and promises to put them on the map it’s understandable why they jump at the chance to

based on the experiences of so many other artists that have come before them

up and coming artists really need to wise up and start making sure that they go through those contracts with a fine-tooth comb before signing any contracts.

After watching Megan’s video clip it seems that she didn’t read the fine print which I suppose is understandable as she was excited about her future and finally felt like she had made it.

However, this is what a lot of these record labels feed off especially when it’s a new up and coming artist who has a little bit of a buzz behind them.

However, Megan’s record label drama proves how certain decisions taken lightly can affect their ability to make and release music later on.

It will be interesting to see how this plays out and I hope they can come to a decision that benefits everyone.

At the end of the day, business is business, and once you sign a contract, you can’t just get up and decide tomorrow that you want to do as you please.

Update: it seems that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel

Megan Thee Stallion has apparently sued record label 1501 and is now able to record new music.

She filed a lawsuit against her record label and was awarded a restraining order by a judge in Harris County Texas, which prevents her record label from blocking the music she was planning to release.

Meghan exposed the terms of her contract and she claims that 1501 gets 60 % of her recording income and the remaining 40 % goes to her, however, her 40% has to also pay the engineers, mixers and featured artists who work on her songs.

Also, apparently, the contract stated that all money from Megan’s touring and live performances are to be paid directly to 1501.

She, also, claims that Carl Crawford has allegedly been using his relationship with rap-a-lot Records founder J. Prince to intimidate people within the music industry.

Megan, allegedly thinks that J Prince was responsible for the online smear campaign against her, which includes the recent story about her getting arrested five years ago.

In addition to all of this, she says that she only received a $ 10,000 advance in exchange for signing the contract, which is why she had originally wanted to renegotiate the terms she’s suing Carl and 1501 certified entertainment for at least 1 million dollars in damages.

The temporary restraining order also prevents the label from attacking or abusing her on social media.

Anyway, thanks for reading and please leave your thoughts in the comments section.

How To Stop Your Toddler Hitting

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How To Stop Toddler Hitting | 6 Gentle Parenting Tips

Hey guys, it’s Monica, today, I’m going to be sharing with you, some tips and ideas on how to deal with toddlers and young children who might be going through the hitting and aggressive behavior stage of their early development.

My goal is that by the end of this post you’ll have some effective tools on how to deal with these sometimes tense situations effectively and with love.

Let’s get into how to peacefully deal with aggression and hitting number one stay calm I know it can be very stressful. However, the most important thing to remember and one of the hardest things to do is to stay in control of our own emotions.

Remember that the initial trigger of emotion that you will be feeling is a stress response to fight-or-flight, and this is designed to get us out of trouble quickly.

When it comes to your toddler hitting you or someone else, they are not a serious threat and this is not an emergency, so stay calm and in control and don’t let your emotions control you.

When we think about it this is the exact thing: we’re actually trying to teach our children so that they learn to have control of their own emotions.

So take a deep breath be in control of your reactions and have a plan on how you’re going to deal with it and remember our children are not our enemies.

They are not trying to make our lives hard or trying to give us a hard time. They’re, usually really struggling with their own emotions and going through a hard time, and in my opinion, these are great learning opportunities to teach our children how to react when stressed and triggered.

We need to let them know that we care and we’re listening to their concerns. We have to remember that we have to connect with them before we can get anything through to them.

look your child in the eyes and calmly, listen to them and empathize, with whatever it was that triggered the behavior/emotional outburst you are witnessing.

Let’s say for example your little one want’s to play with his favorite toy train but his sister won’t let him and he’s having a meltdown and throwing a temper tantrum.

At this point, you could ask him to tell you more about how they’re feeling so that they feel listened too this isn’t meant as a way for you to condone their bad behavior or justify their aggression.

This is to help them learn how to express their feelings and words in inappropriate ways and help them understand their feelings.

You want to help them get out of that fight-or-flight response that triggered the behavior in the first place in order for them to feel safe and secure we have to be as non-threatening and neutral as possible.

This is when we can ask them: how do you think this makes the other person feel when you do this, and we have to do this without introducing shame or threatening them. Because, if they do feel threatened, then they’ll shut down and they won’t be able to hear What we’re saying.

We want our little one to know that we are here to help them because they really don’t want to ask they just want to feel in control of their emotions.

Once your little one is calm they will be more receptive and better able to empathize with what caused the issue in the first place and we can give them tools, and we can talk it out with them.

Give them different scenarios, ask them what they think they can do next time or what they think they can do differently next time.

If your little one is very young you can say next time if you’re feeling really upset. You can maybe ask your friend to share or ask if your sister if she wants to swap toys.

Or maybe you can help your little one to find another activity to do in the meantime and if it’s hard for you to wait, I can be there to help. You find something else to do.

Helping them work through their problems and finding a solution will give them the tools to handle the situation when it happens again in the future.

The above technique is much better in my humble position rather than just punishing them or scolding them or yelling at them as that won’t teach them what to do next time.

It’s important to never forget that we are giving them life skills and the tools for dealing with lifes frustrations as at this stage they’re learning and they’re very young with underdeveloped brains.

Our little ones are not going to know these things and it’s down to us as parents to help them. and give them that information and if we don’t have the information or tools we will need to educate ourselves so we can give them the tools.

Next as parents, what we want to do is understand what might be triggering our little ones behavior are they tired? Were they in an unfamiliar environment and feeling really anxious?

Maybe they haven’t had enough one-on-one time with you lately, and they are just feeling like they need some more attention it really helps to understand the trigger points that could be leading to your childs behavior.

Next up, we want to recognize their good behavior as sometimes we can fall into the trap of only noticing or only highlighting to them what they’ve done wrong, but it’s so important for us to acknowledge their positive behavior when we see them doing the right thing.

Okay, guys. I really hope this was a helpful blog. As always please leave your thoughts below in the comments section.

2 Common Mistakes Most Parents Make When Talking With Preschool Children

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These are some common mistakes, I’ve witnessed people make when they’re talking to preschool-age children

Hi, this is a very short post of two of the most common mistakes, people make when they’re talking to preschool-age children. There really is a certain way to talk to preschoolers to get them to do what you want them to do, and there are some really obvious mistakes that people make that if you correct them, you might be able to get better results.

So here is my list of the five common mistakes. I see people make number five is over flattery, just going over at the top with a child telling them how amazing and great they are, how outstanding their artwork is. How much you love? Love, love, love it and after a while, what happens is that

everything you say starts to sound, very insincere

The first time you say something over-the-top like that’s the best picture. I’ve ever seen anybody draw they may enjoy it, but if you go overboard and say it every time. Can you guess what happens?

After a while, they will start to think that you’re not being really sincere because they hear you saying it to everybody and then they start feeling, like everything you say, is not very sincere or genuine.

So you want to be sure when you’re talking to a child when you like something say it from your heart not going over at the top with too much flattery and compliments

1. Tip number two :

number four is saying terms that mean nothing to children to be a little bit blunt you’re just wasting your breath, things like you should know better or how many times have I told you, or I have told you time and time and time again you know how to do this.

Well, the reality is: maybe they don’t because they’re not doing it, and sometimes you really have to teach children how to behave. Much like you would teach them the alphabet.

The numbers color shapes. You really have to spell it out for them quite frankly, you may have to tell them time and time and time again children learn through repetition, and you might have to find several different ways to tell them the same thing repeatedly so that they are constantly hearing it

Thanks for reading and as promised this was just a quick post as it was something that had recently been on my mind.

How to Raise a Well Behaved Child (4 PARENTING TIPS)

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When you’re out with your children do you ever notice other families and think to yourself. I wish my children were as well behaved as those kids?

understanding children can feel like a never-ending journey even the most Placid parents can be pushed to the edge within minutes. Now, if you feel that you’re not being listened to – and you end up shouting in frustration – you’re not alone, parenting is hard and children don’t arrive in the world with a manual or a set of operating instructions.

But before we look at the solution, let’s go right back to the beginning, so we can try and understand what we need to do for an easier life.

How we as parents behave and communicate with our children will have a massive impact in regards to who they become.

Being a parent is a really tough job and by the time we get the hang of it our children are nearly already grown-up or they might already have children of their own.

Let’s look at some really easy, yet effective parenting tips

Tip Number 1:

A timeout is really important for both sides and it can last from seconds to five minutes now, for the younger children, the timeout could be the naughty step.

However, for the older child, this could be just going to sit down in a quiet place what this will do is give both sides that time to sit and reflect before saying or doing something that they may regret later.

Once everyone has had some time to calm down we then will have the ability to move on and have a more positive and productive conversation.

Tip Number 2 :

Is where we praise the child but reprimand the behavior. Now, for me, this is probably one of the most important and effective ways of raising a well-behaved child and it’s really important to understand the difference between attitudes and behaviors.

So it’s really important for any child to understand the difference between their attitudes and their behaviors.

So we want to be saying to the child, you know you’re a good child you’re, a good boy or girl, you’re kind, you’re, funny, you’re, helpful, you’re, sensitive and you’re caring etc.

What we’re doing with this technique is reinforcing to the child the positives that we admire and want our child to focus on their attitudes, values, and beliefs about who they are.

Now, if a child is naughty, it is not the child that is naughty, it is the behavior that is unacceptable not who they are.

If we can separate these two the child is beginning to learn the difference between good and bad behavior.

Tip Number 3:

The consequence now the consequence is so effective again and if you can learn to do this from an early age, it not only enables you to have a well-behaved child, but it will prevent arguments and discussions as that child is growing as the later in life that You leave it the harder it is to try and implement these tips.

The consequence technique is really easy, but most people fail at this point because they give in and they don’t stick with it.

Let me share a little story with you, picture the scene a young child has got a little toy train and the child loves this train and every day they have this habit of banging it on the glass coffee table in the house.

Now, picture the scene as the parents come home from work at the end of the day and they see their child with their toy train banging it on the glass coffee table and it’s not only just banging the table but it’s also scratching the glass table.

So it’s the noise and it’s the damage and of course, it has the potential to break the glass. The parents say to the child, stop doing that, stop doing it.

However, It doesn’t end, so they tell the child, If you continue banging that train on the table, I’m going to take that train outside and smash it up with a hammer.

The child continues to do it because they have no fear that anything’s going to happen

Now one of the parents gets frustrated and takes this child’s train outside and smashes the train to bits with this hammer.

What do you think will happen? Yep, you guessed it the child, the child is going to have the biggest meltdown and tantrum you’ve ever seen.

Now, when the parents see how upset their child is and they’ve realized they’ve acted out of anger and frustration the next day when the parents come home they’ve bought with them a brand new train they give it to their child and say we’re sorry it was your favorite train.

Next day parent goes to work comes home and what’s the child doing with their train they’re continuing to bang their train on this coffee table, the parents ask the child. Will you stop doing that? I’ve told you enough times. If you do it again, I’m going to take that train and I’m going to smash it up.

The child looks at parents and says it’s okay because you’ll buy me a new one. So the message here is, if you have a consequence, no matter how bad or harsh that consequence may sound to you, you have to complete it and fulfill it and stick with it to the absolute end.

So, for example, let’s say you’re out with your child and you’re playing in the park and they’re there with all their friends having the most amazing time, but your child starts shouting at the other, kids and they’re just exhibiting bad behavior.

Now as a parent you’re watching your child exhibit this bad behavior and in your mind, it is unacceptable.

So you go to your child and you say: stop that behavior. If you do that, one more time I’m going to take you home.

However, the bad behavior continues and now you have two options: you’ve continued to tell your child that their behavior is unacceptable and you’ve told your child to stop it!

You immediately take your child to collect their belongings, put them in the car and take them home in the car.

The child is kicking and screaming they want to continue playing with their friends, but what you have done is stuck to your word and followed through on the consequence of the bad behavior.

The next week you go back to the park and your child starts to exhibit the same unruly behavior again and you say, if you continue with this, I will have no option but to take you home.

The child now actually believes that you will follow through on your actions and realizes they have a choice. I’m going to be taken home If I continue with this behavior more than likely, the child will stop the bad behavior.

Now I’ll admit it may take two or three goes at this, but what will happen is if you follow through on not accepting the bad behavior your child will learn that there are consequences in regards to their behavior.

Tip Number 4:

Options are great because options allow the child to have the belief they still remain in control and have some power over the outcomes of some decisions.

So how does this work? Well? Your child might come to you and say I don’t like broccoli so rather than trying to force them to have some broccoli and they are saying no and you’re saying yes as all this will cause is stress and frustration for both of you .

Instead, you say to your child, would you like three pieces, then or just the one? So the child has to pick one of those two options.

So if your child then says I want only want one piece you’ve still managed to get the desired result of your child eating some vegetables plus they’ve had the benefit of being part of the decision-making process as you gave them the choice, one or three pieces.

Another example of the above is when your child is telling you that they don’t want to go to bed yet and so you’re saying that’s: okay, that’s fine! So would you prefer to go to bed in 10 minutes or in 15 minutes the child then again has the belief that they’re in control and they’re saying I’ll go to bed in 15 minutes? So again, both sides have reached agreement without any of the drama.

When it comes to the older child the above technique can still be used. Obviously, you can’t pull the broccoli trick at that age, but with the older child. What you’re saying to them is there are two options you have.

I want you to come home for 10:30, you can go out with your friends and you can be back for 10:30 tonight and then you can go out again with them at the weekend.

However, If you come home after 10:30, then you’re not going out at the weekend.

I feel that it’s really important that I once again mention that when it comes to your childs behavior remember to distinguish between the attitude and the behavior of a child.

The child is good and you love them no matter what but you’re just disappointed with their behavior.

Whatever technique you decide to use always stick with the consequences you’re going to implement, stick with that consequence because the moment that you break your rule, that child is now managing your behavior and you are not managing theirs.

Make sure you and your partner or whoever is parenting the child are all in agreement if either of you disagrees in regards to the best way to discipline your child please remember to have the conversation away from your child/children.

Thanks for reading and please feel free to share and like this post.

3 Simple Way’s To Stay Motivated

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Hello, today I want to talk to you about how to stay motivated in any situation. No matter. What’s going on. We’ve all had situations where, during the day, nothing seems to get done, no matter how good our intentions are.

Those days that seemed to stretch on forever from the minute your morning alarm begins beeping until the moment you finally turn out the lights and fall into bed wondering how such a long day could still leave you feeling so unfulfilled.

The cause of our sudden slumps may be related to stress at work difficulties in our personal lives and illness or injury, financial issues, or even just a lot of small mistakes or mishaps that have added up to a feeling of de-motivation.

When the above keeps on happening it can quickly begin to feel like there’s no way to get back on track again. Fortunately, this does not have to be the case. There are a lot of different paths that can lead you back to being your very best self.

A great way to jumpstart your enthusiasm for something you need or want to accomplish is to actively seek out something that inspires you. This is honestly one of the easiest ways there is to rediscover the spark of your ambition, and it’s because you probably already know where to start.

Your personal inspiration can be anything, a song that makes you feel great every time you hear it or a set of inspirational quotes that feels like they had to have been written just for you

That card your parents gave you after graduation that lists all of the reasons that they’re proud of you it could be anything at all. As long as it stimulates you and brings you back to the mindset of confidence and determination.

It can sometimes be very helpful to remind yourself that you are definitely not the only person to ever find yourself in a slump, even the most energetic go-getter’s that you know have had their share of bad days.

They just may not have mentioned them to you. It’s an unfortunate fact that many of us have a tendency to downplay our hard times. It can do a great deal of good to open up to our trusted friends or family members about your struggles.

Acknowledging your current lack of motivation and explaining it to someone with a sympathetic ear can make a world of difference and often results in valuable advice or a new perspective on your situation.

Your openness may also give them an opportunity to do the same and allow them to open up to you. Just don’t forget to show gratitude to anyone who is kind enough to be your sounding board and return the favour if they ever need it.

one of the most common causes of motivational burnout can come when we allow ourselves to use just the bare minimum of effort required to do whatever it is we are trying to accomplish.

If you find yourself completing tasks on autopilot, stop what you’re doing and acknowledge it think about all of the ways that you could add a new, more challenging layer to anything.

Consider the process you’ve been following and look for ways to do things more efficiently. Are there any gaps in your knowledge about what you’re trying to accomplish take the extra step to push yourself to a new level by simply committing to improving your efforts will not only be a much more rewarding and interesting experience.

It will also produce results that you can be proud of before we wrap up I’d like to leave you with a thought to share with your friends and followers. You can accomplish virtually anything if you want it badly enough and if you’re willing to work long enough and hard enough to get it

I’d love to hear from you. So my question today is this: what things do you do that? Keep you motivated most of the time, leave a comment below and I’ll be sure to follow up with you, thanks for reading my post and remember, if you want to change your future, take action and take action now!!

 

Blac Chyna Posts Sonogram Shot On Instagram

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Hey, everybody, I hope you are well and feeling fabulous Blac Chyna, has recently sent social media into a spin after posting a sonogram picture of a new baby insulating that she might be pregnant again, however, not everyone is convinced. Blac China posted the sonogram shot on her Instagram feed with a simple caption saying “blessed 2020”.

She did not mention anything more specific about whether or not that is her baby, a picture of someone else’s baby or even a shot screen taking off of Google just to troll people online.

Almost immediately fans of the reality star started to question her motives in the comment Section one person wrote “not true” with another simply saying girl “quit playing” a few people think it was just a straight-up troll post.

A lot of her followers believe she screenshot and lifted the picture from google images when you search for a sonogram. Now, it does look like a generic sonogram picture from google.

However, as you might be aware a lot of sonogram pictures do look a like . Some people are speculating who the father might be as it doesn’t seem that Blac Chyna is publicly dating at the moment. Blac Chyna, did attend the Oscars on Sunday with an award-winning producer named big head Tito, who she posted a video with arriving at the big event.

If she is being serious, then this will be her third child as she shares a son with rapper Tiger and she also has a daughter with Rob Kardashian. However, not all the responses have been negative . One fan commented, Yay, another beautiful baby by a beautiful angel.

As of now, Blac China has not publicly commented on the pregnancy situation maybe I’m being cynical and it was just a way for her to drive people to her page as she knows it will bring a lot of publicity .

On another note, Blac Chyna has recently been in a custody war with Rob Kardashian over their daughter dream.

*Update*Blac Chyna has taken down the sonogram picture from Instagram. She has not addressed whether or not it was a mistake or someone else posted it.

Thank’s guy’s for reading please leave your thoughts in the comments section and hit the social buttons below to share this breaking news

 

Jussie Smollett Prosecuted

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Former Empire actor Jesse Smollett is facing a new six-count indictment for filing false reports last year that he was the victim of a hate crime.

According to USA, Today Smollett had told police that he was beaten by two masked men while walking near a Chicago apartment. On January 29th 2019, he said the attackers shouted racial and anti-gay slurs poured a chemical substance over him and wrapped a noose around his neck.

CNN reports that, while Chicago police initially investigated the incident as a hate crime, prosecutors later claimed, Smollett paid the two men brothers, Abel and Ola Osen to stage the attack for publicity.

Court documents indicate that on January 22nd, 2019 Jesse Smollett received a threatening letter at the studio where the show Empire is filmed. It came with a white powdery substance that was later determined to be ibuprofen, Jesse, was said to be disappointed by the studio’s handling of the letter.

According to prosecutors, Smollett asked the brothers to attack him on the night of January 28th close to his Streeterville apartment, he asked one of the brothers to hurt him, but not too badly and for one of the brothers Ola to put a rope around his neck and pour gasoline on him and shout at him this is maga country.

He then gave the brothers $ 100 to buy rope, gasoline ski masks, gloves for the attack On January 29th, he also pointed out to the brothers where he wanted the attack to take place, pointing out a surveillance camera that would capture the Incident he instructed them to pour bleach instead of gasoline and not to bring through cell phones.

He then gave a $ 3,500 personal check payable to Abel. A delay due to a late flight Jesse was on caused a delay that pushed the plan back to 2 a.m. on the 29th, the actor called Abel at 12:49 a.m. once his plane landed

Minutes later the brothers hailed an uber switching to a cab Midway that took them three blocks from the scene. The attack took place at 2:04 a.m. as instructed, though, the attack happened out of the view of the camera.

The brothers fled the scene afterwards taking a taxi home. The actor had initially been indicted on March 2019 for 16 counts of felony disorderly conduct before charges were all dropped.

 

Just weeks later, a prosecutor says Smollett had forfeited his $10,000 and done community service. Following backlash from the dismissal, a judge assigned special prosecutor Dan Webb to look into why the original charges were dropped.

After considering the serious nature of the false police reports and the resources expended by Chicago PD to investigate his allegations, they have now determined, there are reasonable grounds to further prosecute, adding that it is in the interest of justice.

Another major factor that contributed to his decision is that the Cook County State Attorney’s Office could not provide evidence of similar cases.

Smollett is due in court on February 24th.

Jameela Jamil hits back at claims she ‘makes up health issues for attention’

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Jameela Jamil has hit back at claims. She makes up health issues for attention. The 33-year-old actress and TV presenter has spoken at length about various health issues she has endured throughout her life.

 

Jamila has previously said she has been diagnosed with genetic tissue disease as a child, as well as battling an eating disorder and damaging her spine after being run over by car aged 17.

However, in a post that has since gone viral a social media user claims to have found discrepancies in Jameela’s interviews leading to allegations the British TV presenter feigns health scares. Jameela who earlier this month came out as gay has now Hit back, she said the allegations were made by some weirdo stalker and that supposed holes in her stories were because the accuser had made mistakes in their own research.

In an Instagram, post-Jameela said the social media user was in a rush to bully and drag and forgot to read. Jameelah, who used to present Channel show T4 said she felt upset after being gas-lighted and targeted for harassment by the viral post and that some people have sad empty lives.

Jameela a passionate activist earlier tweeted, not afraid of you or your dumb internet conspiracy theories, keep them coming. You just add to my relevance. I am gonna keep helping people with eating disorders and changing laws and global policies to protect kids and their mental health and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Jameelah said being gas-lighted over her health issues is a very specific, pain and trauma.

She added I’ve, explained and defended every single accusation in my various threads now, if you’ll excuse me I have to get on with a speech, I am writing for the UN. “So have fun, arguing about how many times you think I’ve run away from B’s.”

 

London born Jamil has previously discussed two car accidents. One when she was 17 and was struck by a vehicle damaging her spine. She credits the incident with ending her modelling career and changing her life.

The second car accident she refers to is said to have happened when she was filming for the first season of hit US comedy the good place.

Rapper Yung Miami Begs Fans For Birthday Cash

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Hey everybody, I hope you’re all well and feeling fabulous. It’s normal for celebrities to be showered with free promotional gifts and presents especially when their birthdays come around, but young Miami might be asking a little too much.

The one-half of city girls landed in hot water after she took to Instagram to ask her social media followers to send her birthday money on cash App, young Miami, real name, Kirusha Brownlee, recently gave birth to her second child.

Korea asked that all of her followers send her 5 pounds each as a birthday present, but she also requested that her more generous followers feel free to send her $20 instead and then she posted her cash app information.

However, as soon as she Posted the cash App request on Instagram many fans launched a mutiny in the comments section they called the 23-year-old Miami rapper ghetto broke and greedy Korea quickly realized that her comments were flooded with angry fans, so she swiftly deleted the post.

Here are some comments that were made before the post was deleted. One person found it “weird when celebrities asked for money” especially when you consider that the star has released a successful album that was supported by her fans.

Another Instagram user said, “well this is the first time I’ve seen a celebrity ask for birthday money from fans, and I am certain some dumbass sent a piece of their rent, child support, and tuition bill to her”.

However, don’t think her request for money from her fans didn’t work as she managed to get thousands of dollars and the post was only live for a matter of minutes. Just look at how many fans sent the millionaire rapper some money.

What do you guy’s think leave your thoughts in the comment section below and hit the social media button below to share this breaking news.

How to Handle Haters

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Today I’m going to share with you, something that I learned from Grant, Cardone in his audiobook the 10x rule, which is probably in my top three most, motivating book recommendations. I’ve listened to that audiobook probably at, least five times in its entirety since I, first heard it a few years ago.

It is, one of those audiobooks that can give you that needed kick in the butt when you’re feeling, unmotivated and you just need someone to, kind of give you that boost of, motivation and also some really great, practical steps and techniques to take, action in your life.

If you’re not, familiar with Grant Cardone, I will link his social media and YouTube, channel at the bottom of this post but, something that he says often that really, stands out to me and something that I, really want to share with you is the difference between haters and naysayers.

Now you might be thinking Melissa your blog is all about positivity why are, you talking about haters well something, that I actually find quite fascinating is why the haters/naysayer in our lives are can be a really toxic influence in your life because, they go under the radar so I’m gonna, explain to you a hater is basically, someone in your life who is jealous of, you or doesn’t want you to succeed or is, just a negative force in your life.

Now, normally the haters can be quite obvious and easy to identify, like you can notice when someone is, jealous of you or when someone has bad, intentions toward you so it’s very easy, to kind of avoid that.

However a naysayer can often be someone that’s very very close, to you so Grant uses the example of his, own mother being a naysayer in his own, life and the reason that this is so, dangerous is because it can really stop, you from pursuing your dreams without, you even realizing it.

so for example, Grant Cardone’s mom used to tell him you’ve got a good job like, you’re doing well, don’t try to go and start that business, don’t get into real estate it’s too, risky, you’re gonna lose all your money

You’re, going to make the wrong decisions, and you’re gonna end up disappointed and, I don’t want that to happen to you so, don’t do that and he says that these naysayers in our life are often, people who want the best for us they love us they truly believe they are trying to keep us safe and helping us avoid being disappointed.

However, in turn, they’re also preventing us from taking risks and are deterring us from going after what we, really want most in life, many of us probably aren’t even aware, of the naysayers in our life.

Now I’m not saying that it means that you need to, convince them to support you and, change their mind it just means you need to be, aware of when someone is being a, naysayer so that you, can go and take the action anyway.

Now, this is all about really trusting yourself, and when people start telling you, to stay small to not go after that level, of fitness that you’ve always wanted, because maybe you won’t make it or, maybe you don’t really have time to, commit to that gym schedule so don’t do that you’re just gonna end up disappointed and we don’t want you to, change we love you the way you are.

Messages like those above are on one hand so well-meaning and they seem like they’re wrapped in love however these kinds of actions and behaviors can also be very dangerous for our self-growth and for our personal development.

“My Mind Has to Be Completely Focused on My Own Illusions”

I just wanted to write this post as something for you to reflect on in your own life as this might be something that is preventing you, from going after what you really want in your life are there people in your life who are kind of telling you that just stay where you are we love you as you are you don’t start that new business.

But if you have these big dreams in your heart and if you have things that you really want to go after and experience then you’re gonna have to sometimes do it just by following what’s true in your heart

You might not always get the support from those close to you maybe they don’t have it in them to give that to you support sometimes you will just need to muster up your inner strength and just do it as you know it’s the right path for you.

Never forget this is your life and you need to grab all the opportunities that present themselves to you

Thanks for reading guys, and please leave your comments in the comment section below.

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